Showing posts with label Gratitude. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Gratitude. Show all posts

Monday, February 29, 2016

Gumption.

Gumption. Get up & Go

         Here is a great word to use in presentations. A word that does, like Captain Kirk is often quoted, “…boldly go where no one has gone before.”
Gumption:
         1.Boldness of enterprise; initiative or aggressiveness.
         2.Guts; spunk.
         3.Common sense.
         What a story this word creates. It has a place in the Word Hall of Fame. The mix of initiative, risk and common sense is a recipe for a hero.          
         This word is a noun, a person, place or thing, but it feels more like a verb, an action, a way of being. 
         Watch for power words. Words to take on a quest. Words to inspire an audience. Words to save me on a rainy day when the S.A.D.S.* drizzle forth ‘stinkin-thinkin’.
         Got Gumption?
         Who’s got it?
         Where does it come from?
         How did they get it?
         How can I get some?
         It comes from the same store that serve other Hall of Fame Words, like Attention, Belief, Conscious, Discipline, Effort, Feedback, down the G aisle along with Grace and Gratitude. A place where words are tools to build the skill and karma accounts. Words that transform into action.
         All our heroes Got Gumption.
         Public Speaking requires Gumption. Parenting needs Gumption, the whole concept of birthing, caring, teaching, and the patience of parents require Gumption.
         We build Gumption from taking risks.  Risks are very individual. Physical, mental, emotional, spiritual, business all have different, individual kinds of risks. One person risks a six-figure income to start his or her own business. Another takes a risk and leaves their comfort zone to teach others to take risks. Some risk their ‘likeability’ by knocking on a door, making cold calls, risking rejection. Some have risked physical safety by walking on fire, parachuting for fun and thrills, taking on physical challenges to manifest Gumption

         Life changes are risky business, and appreciating changes builds Gumption.
*S.A.D.S. Seasonally Afflected Disorders 

Thursday, February 4, 2016

Avoid borrowing trouble.



         I believe we can control our mind by the questions we ask, and we can make war with the questions we ask.
         How do I know what you are thinking?
         I heard a story of a friend with a ‘significant other’(SO) that when asked “What were you thinking when you said that? The (SO) Consistently replied, “I don’t know.”
         “What do you mean? You must have thought something. What?”
         “I don’t know.” Escalation begins-
         “It is almost impossible to not think. How do you do it?”
         “I don’t know.” Further escalation.
         “Well you must have thought something.”
         “I can’t remember.” The first bomb-
         “You’re lying.”BOOM!
         Not my Circus. Not my Monkey.
         A polish aphorism, that has humor built into the picture, to let it go.
         Here is a core value of communication-NEED TO KNOW NEED NOT. It is how not to take on behavior or karma that is not your own.
         Staying free from taking on other peoples troubles, not building mountains out of mole hills.
         What is mine? What is yours? What is ours?
         IS there a line separating you and me?
         How interconnected are we?
Since we are connected and do need and enjoy each other here is another core value that makes life and communication work,  play Yes, And. Pure acceptance And make your significant other look and feel valued.
         The final value since we are connected, wherever I go, you go with me and I go with you. Yes, and that with wherever two or more gather to learn, to grow, we become treasures for each other. Cherish our time, all the time, for it is an honor to know each of you. You are not my circus. Not my monkey. You are friends, support, part of my treasury.
“Whoever has Gratitude will be given more, and they will have abundance. Whoever does not have Gratitude, even what they have will be taken.”


Friday, November 21, 2008

An Attitude of Gratitude



The title of this blog is Public Speaking Fearlessly, and I hope you have moved past the fear and into the essences of life, the interests, empathy, joy, enthusiasm and gratitude.

The appreciation of the amazing fact of being alive.

The wonders of the senses.

The magic of the imagination.

The enjoyment of each other, of how we differ and how we are the same.

The delight to feel the interest for others, of life with an audience.

It’s the start of the Holy-Day experiences.

Take the time to Check Inn with yourself and find what and who you appreciate.

My Hope exploded on November 4th with the election of Barrack Obama.

His acceptance speech had me in tears.

His family, the crowd, the respect he was shown by his opponent transmitted a message of the American ideals and placed them at the forefront of our minds.

He has raised the standard of Public Speaking.

With all his new responsibilities and great formiable challenges he uses his meaningful pauses, and appreciation of his family, as a bench mark, a ground of being for a strong message of take the time to not only smell the roses, but share the appreciation with those in the Rose Garden, Adopt an Attitude of Gratitude and let Thanksgiving begin with you.